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Hotwifing Isn’t About Humiliation, While Cuckolding Can Be
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Top definition. Hotwife unknown. Lisa loved being a hotwife. Nothing made her feel sexier than when her husband watched her as two men they barely knew sandwiched her in that hotel. A married woman who has the feedom in her marriage to pursue sexual relationships with men other than her husband. Her husband has full knowledge of her activities and consents to them. Even though I have been married a long time I am a hotwife and love my freedom! I am a hot wife and my husband loves it.
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Both focus on a woman partner having sexual encounters outside of her primary partnership for the enjoyment of both herself and her primary male partner. Cuckolding relationships are often marked by the humiliation of the primary male partner, explains clinical sexologist Dr Eve. Dr Eve explains that it is important to remove the shame around sexual fetishes, in order for partners to authentically explore their sexual desires. Read: Do you hide your kinks and fantasies? Exploring sexuality authenticity disorder. She says that many partners men in particular find it difficult to introduce the idea to sexual partners because it is seen as taboo. In every single relationship, people are going to have diverse erotic orientations, needs and desire levels. People have to negotiate. Also read: 10 sexting tips on how to keep things spicy and safe. According to Dr Eve, the act of cuckolding results in both anguish and arousal for the primary male partner cuckold.
Test Your Word IQ! Play Now. One of the most important aspects though is that both partners are open and trusting with each other. It only works if both partners are mutually onboard; the hotwifing arrangement often falls apart when one partner becomes uncomfortable with non-monogamy or when one partner feels pressured against their will to participate. The term first started showing up online in the mids, mostly among message boards for swingers and exhibitionists. The term spread in late in personal ads involving husbands wanting to show off their hot wives before further taking hold online. The term is mostly used in the swinger and non-monogamous communities, as well as among hotwife fetishists. Online, there are also entire forums, websites, and at least one subreddit dedicated to hotwifing , where people come together to share stories and find community around the practice.