However, I did not expect my role in marriage to end up what it has become. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. He also doesn't let me sleep in and stay there when he leaves for work. By Thursday, I'd feel like he disappeared. I agree, girls, it can be a challenge to find time together. Back in the day, before I did the whole language thing, I worked in banking. JS married a girl her age when he was 37, after having told her that he had been threatened by an angel with a flaming sword and promising her entire family salvation if she consentedI decided to read the ces letter. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well.
I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state. I take offense to your statement about affairs. Please start another thread and continue the conversation.
As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. You will get to mingle with a lot of new people, and who knows, maybe you will also find the guy or girl of your dreams there. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. Or the links, in that first vision one. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so.
I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. I have missed the Church in some ways, and certainly the blessings of a temple marriage. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. He has lived alone forever and now we are living together, engaged, and of course, I have moved to another state to be with him. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. I had no idea how hard it could get.