This article was written by Christine Schoenwald and provided by our partners at YourTango. Fact: No one wants the same kind of sex day after day. We all want to expand the number of ways in which we reach our Os. The latest way to get those warm fuzzies in your lady bits: booty orgasms. The anus and rectum are part of all men and women's sexual makeup and how you stimulate them affects the genitals, says Stacy Rybchin, CEO of My Secret Luxury. During anal penetration, you're also stimulating the clitoral legs. And for men, the nerve that goes to the penis and scrotum also goes to the anus," she says.
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How to have an anal orgasm
There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of albeit sexy taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least. What the heck are you supposed to do down there? Is it painful? And most of all: Is it actually possible to have an anal orgasm? For starters: Yes, anal sex can be enjoyable. And yes, anal orgasms are totally thing. Simply put, an anal orgasm is climax achieved by stimulation of high-density nerve spots in the anus.
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If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth. Anal penetration indirectly stimulates the A-spot in the vagina. The A-spot, or anterior fornix if you want to get fancy, is located deep inside the vagina — around 5 or 6 inches in. It feels like intense waves of pleasure that begin deep inside your body and radiate through the rest of your body.
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.